Tuesday, May 29, 2012

Third Trimester


May 29 is the day I've been looking forward to for a few months. According to most IVF pregnancy calculators, it's the day when our third and final trimester begins. Since twins are considered full-term at 37 weeks, we've actually completed more than 2/3rds of this journey. To remind us of this great news, SCI sent us our monthly scan over the weekend. At 26 weeks, Twin A was 25 weeks and 5 days while Twin B was still measuring 13 days behind. I sent a panic e-mail to Dr. Shivani and she promptly responded by reminding me that there will always be some difference between twins and that less than 2 weeks is not something to be too concerned about. She also mentioned that our surrogate is on a high protein diet, so we hope Twin B will grow grow grow!

It's hard to imagine how far along we've come in this journey. How did all this time pass by so quickly? Looking back, the hardest and slowest part was the first trimester. Second trimester just flies by. Either that or everything we've been doing to distract ourselves is REALLY working. We took another one of those 'distraction' trips, this time to the San Juan Islands for a family reunion. My brother flew up from Southern California and it was really nice to spend time with him and the rest of the family. When I first came out to them a couple of days before our wedding (bad idea), my folks refused to attend our wedding and it was very difficult for everyone. Since then, their views have really evolved. All these years later, it was nice to see everyone wholeheartedly supporting us and anxiously awaiting our newest additions to the family. Life is good!

We painted the walls of the nursery a very neutral color and finished most of the shopping as well. Now, we just need to put the furniture together and start decorating our nursery.  I don't know if we'll have a nursery theme. Right now it's looking like a lot of animals and travel. We liked a fellow blogger's suggestion of having just 1 crib and a pack n play for the first 6 months. We got the crib and all crib essentials from Ikea. The pack n play is on our gift registry so we'll see if we still need to get it after the baby shower :) The one thing we have no clue about is diapers. I hear twins use about 25-30 diapers a DAY so is there any point in taking them with us to Delhi? That sounds like a lot of excess baggage fees! I would think they would have diapers in Delhi so I think we'll just stock up on diapers from Costco, before heading to Delhi. On our next update, we'll most likely have nursery pictures. Hard to believe that in a little over 3 weeks, we'll hit our 30 weeks pregnancy milestone!

Finally, BIG congrats to Doug & Bill on the birth of their daughter Cristina Lei, to Jason and Adrian on the birth of their twins Olivia Grace and Clara Joanna, and to Temmy on the birth of her baby girl.

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  1. The most consistent comment I heard from other bloggers was that the diapers in India run too big - especailly for twins who tend to be on the smaller side. Our twins used about 10-12 diapers each per day. We brought enough to last us for 3 weeks.

    While we did not bring formula (our baby hospital used Pre-Nan by Nestle and sent us home with a can. Then they switched to Nan-1. It was easy to find at a grocery store.), we did bring Simalac premixed 2 oz bottles for use on the flight home as well as trips to the US Embassy, the FRRO office, and return follow-up doctor appoinments. It makes it easier to not have to worry about mixing formula. The bottles use a one time use only nipple that is sold separately. I just ordered it from the Similac website but I've seen it at Babies-R-Us. Airport security shouldn't bother you because the bottles are only 60 mls.

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    1. We just ordered 720 'N' size diapers online. They were much cheaper than the stores! We'll take some premie size diapers with us as well, if needed.. but I really hope we won't need em! Let us know if we need to buy anything else for the trip to Delhi. Your advice is much appreciated. Thnx :)

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  2. You're in the home stretch. Yay!!

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  3. So many exciting posts lately with wonderful milestones being reached and the reality of everything actually happening setting in. Congrats on the third trimester guys, I am sure it will fly by in the blink of an eye !!

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  4. The time will fly by and before you know it you'll be Daddies and a family of four...all in a blink of an eye. The journey can be long in the beginning...but the last 90 days or so are lightning fast. And thanks for the congrats...we are loving every minute of it!

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  5. Hip hip hooray! Won't be long now!!!

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  6. Great news!! Getting exciting now.. well done on painting nursery i havent done anything yet!!!

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    1. oh Lisalu, u better start shopping.. I hear 26-30 wks goes by the fastest!!

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  7. Cant believe we are getting so close!! Love the posts and pics...see you guys SOON. Note, i don't do well with heat so please excuse my frizzed hair ahead of time, LOL

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    1. Mandy, I cant stand humidity.. so it's going to be pretty crazy for me too! haha

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